I’ll settle for the color of skin. Skin is the color of his skin, which is my skin, and one day while running my skin gets cold, cells pass away, and I almost lose my feet. It’s winter in Chittenango and he wears a beard. This is before the divorce. I love my one-year-old sister Evelyn who is three years younger than I am. She’s at daycare, my mother is at work, and my father watches the house. James Leon, my father, is supposed to be watching the house but we’re stretching our legs on the porch. I wear shorts, a sweatshirt, and a knit cap, and my socks are pulled up to my knees. My sneakers are laced tighter than ice-skates and I don’t really want to do this. The snow will cover our tractor soon. Wind batters our plastic porch windows.

“Are you ready?” he says. “You’re ready.”

James Leon is a runner. He has run the Boston Marathon three times and the New York City twice. He has given up competitive running, he says, to help my mother raise the family. But he’s made a quiet agreement with himself. He’ll run twelve miles every day and he’ll bring me along for part of it. His body, as he likes to say, is a well-conditioned rock.

With a grunt he pushes the porch door open, and one of the aluminum panels blows in with a windy pop. I follow him outside. My sweatshirt is a sieve, and since I haven’t an ounce of fat on my frame, the wind scoops heat from my belly and my back. I take a couple of jumps.

“Here, put these on your hands,” he says, and he rolls thick grey socks over the knuckles of my fingers. He wants to keep them warm. The wool is itchy and cold, so I make fists as he pulls the hem of each sock up to the elbow, He snaps rubber bands around my arms to hold the socks in place.

“Is that good?” he says. “It’s good.”

James Leon claps his hands. I jump, because I’m a good soldier. He wants to warm up for the run. He bounces too, and the cold gravel driveway crunches under our feet. We curve off the end of the driveway, out to the open road, and he directs me to a lane of dirt that covers the narrow shoulder. We run slowly, as we always do, and he and I keep pace. My cheeks feel raw and scraped already. Ice crystals glint from the pavement.

We run past barns and wide fields and past the old missile silo near the Gaveston Yard. For those of us who have inherited our politics rather than arrived at them, who mentally lay dynamite at the California borders to float us out to sea, who have forgotten Clinton’s Rwanda, who never bother with Bayview or Hunter’s Point let alone strike out for New England, or for a southern state, who grow up here, settle here, because we know we hit the jackpot, who watch others come and go as we calmly assume a shape, who fear and detest the Ivy League but can’t name the schools that compose it, New England is studded with missile silos. They are hidden in random fields. They are hidden all over the country, and one day a few years after the divorce my third grade math teacher will assign a project based on proportions. We’ll live in another house, in another town, and I’ll choose my bedroom for a model. I’ll lay astro-turf in a cardboard box, and then add a dresser and a bed. I’ll paint a mirror on the wall and then I’ll draft some falsified plans. I’m not impressed with this work, and it’s worse when I show up for class, because my friend Favvy will be standing next to her beautiful rendition of a missile silo. It will be three feet tall, with windows and wheels, and entirely in proportion. Her picture will appear in the Adirondack Daily, and we’ll both receive grades of one hundred.

James Leon checks in with me now and then, but as the strong wind pushes us along the road, I rarely give honest answers. He has drawn my shoelaces far too tight. My feet are cold and pinched. He looks fine, and as he trots like a Clydesdale with bumpers on his feet, steam shoots out of his mouth. He breaks into a slick sweat, and he rolls his hat up over his ears.

My face feels bitten by wind as I run, and by sand thrown up from the road. I’m losing feeling in my feet. It hasn’t been this cold on our previous runs, and we won’t run together again. In a few weeks my mother, carrying Evelyn in her arms, will move us out of our house.

“You’re warm enough?” he says. “You can make it to the pole?”

The utility pole is my turn-around point. It is .51 miles from our house. My father, who is always taking the measure of things, has driven the distance out in his truck, and pegged it with the odometer. I sat in the passenger’s seat as he drove, watching the moon follow us through the window.

“You can you make it to the pole,” he decides.

I wonder if I can. My feet no longer belong to me, and I sort of flap them with my shins. Flap, flap. I watch them hit the road. Flap…and onward with the pattern until, to my surprise, the rusty rims of the transformer pot hang above our heads. Electrical jumpers quiver and hum as my father runs in place.

“Okay,” he says. “Go around it.”

I swing around the pole with my sock-fist, twice, because this is our tradition. I tug the sock free when it snags.

“You remember what to do?” he says. “Run on the side of the road. Look for our yellow house.”

He claps his hands together, and I flap off down the road.

“Now, home!” he calls out after me.

James Leon has found himself caught between two conflicting agreements; the agreement he has made with himself – to train – and an agreement he has made with my Mother.

I flap with high knees and a straight back because there’s a chance he might be watching. There’s a chance he isn’t watching, too, so I turn around to see. He’s running. His legs are fluid and they appear relaxed. He’s hit his natural stride. He removes his hat and holds it with his hand and oh my Lord I’m proud. His feet snap comfortably back to the road after each smooth reach of his legs. He disappears at a point along the horizon, and I linger for a while, until it’s clear there’s nobody there. With the toe of his sock I cover my neck. I bend my head against the wind.

I daydream.

I look at my feet.

The road just looks the same.

I begin to walk to the house, but the wind skates through my body and threatens to blow me off the road. In truth I feel unbalanced. My feet are numb, and if I tilt into one of these uncut fields I’m certain that I’ll be lost. Then, as if thinking about being lost has made me – not lost, but clumsy – I trip and skin my knee.

I roll onto my butt and I take off my hat.

With blood on my knee, I daydream.

There is a considerable body of evidence that points to the emotional and social benefits that accrue to resilient children. What are the characteristics of a resilient child, and how can we identify vulnerable children? Barbara T. Bowman will present a practical and engaging session in which she will consider strategies adults can use to promote resiliency in children. You will leave empowered with new ideas for enhancing coping and negotiation skills that will serve children throughout their lives.

This woman’s leg is attractive.

She pulls her car to the side of the road, opens a blue door, and slips her beautiful leg out. The leg is several cuts above my family’s class and sophistication. When the woman gets out, she looks at me. She looks at the socks that are bound to my hands and I feel a little embarrassed. She looks at my bloody knee.

“Where are you’re parents?” she says.

I don’t want trouble, for me or for my father. I point toward our yellow house.

“You better come with me,” she says.

She helps me up off the side of the road and brings me to her car. She wraps a blanket around me. The car is plush and warm, like the woman’s soft blue coat, and it smells like a pile of rum cookies. I shiver as she drives. When we reach the yellow house, she pulls into the driveway, and she puts the car in park. She sits for a moment, letting her wide brown eyes rest on me. She smiles. There is concern in this smile, and apprehension, and a brisk intelligence in her eyes, and even, it seems to me, a sexual consideration. She understands something of my past, and of my future.

“You might be okay,” she says.

She is who I want to be.

Her smile fades as she touches my hand, and then she opens the door. She leaves me in the car with her blanket, and her face assumes a curious expression as she walks up to our house. She knocks on the door, waits a moment, and then she tries the handle. The door of course swings open. She gathers me up like a puppy in a blanket and carries me into the living room. She sets me down on the couch.

“I can’t believe these socks,” she says.

She removes the rubber bands from my elbows and unrolls the socks from my hands. In our bathroom, the woman finds a sponge that my mother uses to remove make-up from her face. The woman cleans my cuts.

“Your lips are blue,” she says.

If I weren’t so cold, I’d blush.

“Which direction did he run in?” she says. “Try to remember for me.”

I point in a direction.

“Okay,” she says, and she takes a deep breath. Leaving me in alone in my house seems hard for her to do.

“I’m going to leave, but I’ll be back soon,” she says. “Are you thirsty?”

“No.”

“Keep this blanket tight around you. Stay there on the couch.”

She touches my face and Lord her hand is warm. I don’t want her to take it away. She leaves me wrapped in her blanket, though, and after she closes the door I think about locking it. I wish there were a way to warn my father that this woman is out there on the road, looking for him. I sense there might be trouble.

I want to get these sneakers off, but the laces are stiffly knotted. My fingers make ticking sounds as they slip against the knots.

It’s all a game of waiting. You wait for school to start, and you wait for school to end. You wait for summer. You wait for lunch, and when a sandwich is served you don’t really want to eat it. You wait for leaves to fall from the trees, and you rake them into piles. You cover yourself with them.

I should give up on the woman.

Instead, I’ll wait for James Leon to come in from his run. I’ll wait with Deacon, our boa constrictor.

Deacon and I are the same age and we both eat once a month. That’s my mother’s joke. Our family is a robust and healthy family, as you can see, but I happen to be an exception. I’m a picky eater. I want to eat; that is, I want to want to eat. But I have no appetite for it. Now and then my appetite comes and I eat and eat and eat.

I ate eleven pancakes for breakfast once and my mother beamed. She beamed so brightly that I made a big display of it, counting out the pancakes as I swallowed them down, and eating while my appetite was good.

Deacon? I’m freezing.

Let’s look at each other’s tongues.

James Leon has arrived, and he doesn’t look cold. In fact, he seems to be sweating.

The woman doesn’t come inside. She drops him off and leaves. She leaves me with her blanket, though, and with my father, James Leon: a twice-decorated US Marine who can’t untie my shoes. He cuts the laces with a knife.

One at a time he removes each sneaker, and he then removes each sock. As we look at my feet it occurs to me: the Marines haven’t taught him shit. If I was under fire in the living room and there was a bunker in the kitchen he would be very quick to drag me there. His belt would be ready if my foot were a spurting stump. But it isn’t. It’s just cold. Both my feet are cold, and my father James Leon looks worried. I look at him, and he looks at my feet. My feet aren’t looking good. Parts of my left foot – including the ball and two toes – are white and luminescent. The cells of my feet, like stars, are releasing energy as they die. My father and I wonder what he’s going to do, and if he’s smart, he’s making agreements with himself.

James Leon is smart – but he’s smart in peculiar ways.

I wonder if I’m being fair. If I, right now, were to chart a graph of my own life with the y-axis being my level of emotional maturity and the x-axis being time, the result would more closely resemble my high-risk stock, with all of its spikes and slides, than the comfortable hypotenuse of my more stable holdings.

This is true of James Leon, too, and right now he’s in a slide. It isn’t the worst of slides. The worst will come in sixteen weeks, when he will slide lower than most people ever slide. Most people never spend an evening raping their wife, after she’s left him, and then leave her – as he will – with a badly broken jaw. Most people don’t do that. For this reason it will be difficult, years later, for him to find a way to talk about it. It will take courage. One day when I’m fourteen – and all grown up – James Leon and I will sit alone in a car with theater stubs in our hands. He’s nervously enjoying visiting rights, trying to find courage in me.

I’ve done stupid things, he says. I’ll regret them all my life.

It’s okay, I say.

Your mother’s a very strong woman.

This is true. My mother is an interesting woman. My father, who turns a ticket stub in his hand, is making a beginning. He’s laying groundwork for our future, for years when we’re both older, when I’m no longer fourteen, and he’s not thirty-nine. People need someone to call on the phone, when things get tough, or to take care of them, when they get older. He wants me to understand this. James Leon has made an agreement with himself to try to make things right.

Listen, I say. It’s over. For the most part, we’re okay.

This isn’t true. My sister Evelyn, for example, is far from okay. My sister Evelyn, for example, is twenty-six years old and she’s afraid to have sex. She wants to have sex, that is, she wants to want to have sex, but she has no appetite for it. She’s told me this over the phone. She has no appetite for kissing either, or for dating men, or women, which is a strange wrinkle in this narrative, a little tic in logic. I was present for my mother’s rape, and I heard the awful screams. She and I are okay. But Evelyn, who was only a year old when the rape occurred, who was pre-conscious, and technically, not present for the rape, is none-the-less obsessed with it. This rape is all over her life. It’s in the books she reads, and in the movies she watches. It’s in men she finds attractive.

Evelyn has lost her balance. She has intense imagination, and if her mind twirls and her hands reach out, they reach wants for understanding. She says that she wants to live (which is a trend in the right direction) and last year she earned a teaching degree. But teaching isn’t enough for Evelyn; she wants to keep patterns from repeating. She wants to know our history so she can lean against a frame. She told me this over the phone. Since I remember everything, I felt obliged to help. I told her I lay on the couch in the living room and I heard Mom’s screams from the bedroom as I tried to fall asleep.

This wasn’t enough for Evelyn.

“This is my father that we’re talking about, and my mother, and they’re your parents too. You need to do better than that.”

So I told her.

One day Dad lied and he took me on a run during winter in Chittenango and my feet got cold but he saved them. He put water on the stove and I still worry about the water but he rolled up his shirt and put my feet on his belly. His belly got cold and my feet were still cold so he moved my feet up to his chest. His mouth was open. I could hear water boil but dad heard nothing. He looked at my feet which were dead, and Evelyn, I tell you he knew he had killed them. He said please to somebody and it wasn’t to me and he breathed harder than I’d ever heard him run. He moved my feet to his armpits. He kneeled on the floor before the couch and he lay his head down on my knees. He said please please but not to me, and my kneecaps itched under his beard. He had killed them. The water boiled in the kitchen but it must have boiled away because after an hour I no longer heard it, but still I worry about it. Then the feeling came back and yeah the pain was so bad that I screamed. So he saved them.

This wasn’t enough for Evelyn, either.

So I decided to take a trip.

Where there is no great love, there can be no great disappointment.

Martin Luther King, Riverside Church,
New York, 1967

Evelyn is smart with money. She owns a small house in Albuquerque. The house stands on a plot of land with a yard surrounded by a short wall of pink cinderblocks that breaks a New Mexican wind. It blows in from the Sandias Mountains. The sky pulses orange and yellow light as she drives me in from the airport, and the cactus shudder in the warm wind as we pull into her driveway. I can only stay for an evening.

“It will remain like this for an hour,” she says, looking up at the sky. “I’ll show you through the yard.”

Her backyard is pretty. Native succulents green the dry sand, and a tall cactus with many arms reaches above the pink wall. The yard isn’t big, but as we walk, Evelyn gives me a short history. She explains how the yard was desert when she first moved in, how she planted things but they died, and so she tried to plant again. A few of them took, she says, and as she shows me the leaf of a bottle tree, we sit down on a swing.

So, she says.

So.

Where do you want to start?

Evelyn, there’s no good place to start.

In that case, just start talking.

Can’t you see I’m trying?

Todd Chapman, an MFA student at San Francisco State University, was raised in the Adirondack Mountains of New York. Todd’s interest in writing began through the works of Roald Dahl, and at age thirteen he wrote a letter to Mr. Dahl soliciting tips on writing. He never received a response.

Photo by Thomas Kearnes. Thomas Kearnes is a freelance visual designer, author and photographer from East Texas. His fiction has appeared in Wicked Hollow, Southern Hum, flashquake, Underground Voices and Blithe House Quarterly. His
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I’ll settle for the color of skin. Skin is the color of his skin, which is my skin, and one day while running my skin gets cold, cells pass away, and I almost lose my feet. It’s winter in Chittenango and he wears a beard. This is before the divorce. I love my one-year-old sister Evelyn who is three years younger than I am. She’s at daycare, my mother is at work, and my father watches the house. James Leon, my father, is supposed to be watching the house but we’re stretching our legs on the porch. I wear shorts, a sweatshirt, and a knit cap, and my socks are pulled up to my knees. My sneakers are laced tighter than ice-skates and I don’t really want to do this. The snow will cover our tractor soon. Wind batters our plastic porch windows.

“Are you ready?” he says. “You’re ready.”

James Leon is a runner. He has run the Boston Marathon three times and the New York City twice. He has given up competitive running, he says, to help my mother raise the family. But he’s made a quiet agreement with himself. He’ll run twelve miles every day and he’ll bring me along for part of it. His body, as he likes to say, is a well-conditioned rock.

With a grunt he pushes the porch door open, and one of the aluminum panels blows in with a windy pop. I follow him outside. My sweatshirt is a sieve, and since I haven’t an ounce of fat on my frame, the wind scoops heat from my belly and my back. I take a couple of jumps.

“Here, put these on your hands,” he says, and he rolls thick grey socks over the knuckles of my fingers. He wants to keep them warm. The wool is itchy and cold, so I make fists as he pulls the hem of each sock up to the elbow, He snaps rubber bands around my arms to hold the socks in place.

“Is that good?” he says. “It’s good.”

James Leon claps his hands. I jump, because I’m a good soldier. He wants to warm up for the run. He bounces too, and the cold gravel driveway crunches under our feet. We curve off the end of the driveway, out to the open road, and he directs me to a lane of dirt that covers the narrow shoulder. We run slowly, as we always do, and he and I keep pace. My cheeks feel raw and scraped already. Ice crystals glint from the pavement.

We run past barns and wide fields and past the old missile silo near the Gaveston Yard. For those of us who have inherited our politics rather than arrived at them, who mentally lay dynamite at the California borders to float us out to sea, who have forgotten Clinton’s Rwanda, who never bother with Bayview or Hunter’s Point let alone strike out for New England, or for a southern state, who grow up here, settle here, because we know we hit the jackpot, who watch others come and go as we calmly assume a shape, who fear and detest the Ivy League but can’t name the schools that compose it, New England is studded with missile silos. They are hidden in random fields. They are hidden all over the country, and one day a few years after the divorce my third grade math teacher will assign a project based on proportions. We’ll live in another house, in another town, and I’ll choose my bedroom for a model. I’ll lay astro-turf in a cardboard box, and then add a dresser and a bed. I’ll paint a mirror on the wall and then I’ll draft some falsified plans. I’m not impressed with this work, and it’s worse when I show up for class, because my friend Favvy will be standing next to her beautiful rendition of a missile silo. It will be three feet tall, with windows and wheels, and entirely in proportion. Her picture will appear in the Adirondack Daily, and we’ll both receive grades of one hundred.

James Leon checks in with me now and then, but as the strong wind pushes us along the road, I rarely give honest answers. He has drawn my shoelaces far too tight. My feet are cold and pinched. He looks fine, and as he trots like a Clydesdale with bumpers on his feet, steam shoots out of his mouth. He breaks into a slick sweat, and he rolls his hat up over his ears.

My face feels bitten by wind as I run, and by sand thrown up from the road. I’m losing feeling in my feet. It hasn’t been this cold on our previous runs, and we won’t run together again. In a few weeks my mother, carrying Evelyn in her arms, will move us out of our house.

“You’re warm enough?” he says. “You can make it to the pole?”

The utility pole is my turn-around point. It is .51 miles from our house. My father, who is always taking the measure of things, has driven the distance out in his truck, and pegged it with the odometer. I sat in the passenger’s seat as he drove, watching the moon follow us through the window.

“You can you make it to the pole,” he decides.

I wonder if I can. My feet no longer belong to me, and I sort of flap them with my shins. Flap, flap. I watch them hit the road. Flap…and onward with the pattern until, to my surprise, the rusty rims of the transformer pot hang above our heads. Electrical jumpers quiver and hum as my father runs in place.

“Okay,” he says. “Go around it.”

I swing around the pole with my sock-fist, twice, because this is our tradition. I tug the sock free when it snags.

“You remember what to do?” he says. “Run on the side of the road. Look for our yellow house.”

He claps his hands together, and I flap off down the road.

“Now, home!” he calls out after me.

James Leon has found himself caught between two conflicting agreements; the agreement he has made with himself – to train – and an agreement he has made with my Mother.

I flap with high knees and a straight back because there’s a chance he might be watching. There’s a chance he isn’t watching, too, so I turn around to see. He’s running. His legs are fluid and they appear relaxed. He’s hit his natural stride. He removes his hat and holds it with his hand and oh my Lord I’m proud. His feet snap comfortably back to the road after each smooth reach of his legs. He disappears at a point along the horizon, and I linger for a while, ut it’s clear there’s nobody there. With the toe of his sock I cover my neck. I bend my head against the wind.

I daydream.

I look at my feet.

The road just looks the same.

I begin to walk to the house, but the wind skates through my body and threatens to blow me off the road. In truth I feel unbalanced. My feet are numb, and if I tilt into one of these uncut fields I’m certain that I’ll be lost. Then, as if thinking about being lost has made me – not lost, but clumsy – I trip and skin my knee.

I roll onto my butt and I take off my hat.

With blood on my knee, I daydream.

There is a considerable body of evidence that points to the emotional and social benefits that accrue to resilient children. What are the characteristics of a resilient child, and how can we identify vulnerable children? Barbara T. Bowman will present a practical and engaging session in which she will consider strategies adults can use to promote resiliency in children. You will leave empowered with new ideas for enhancing coping and negotiation skills that will serve children throughout their lives.

This woman’s leg is attractive.

She pulls her car to the side of the road, opens a blue door, and slips her beautiful leg out. The leg is several cuts above my family’s class and sophistication. When the woman gets out, she looks at me. She looks at the socks that are bound to my hands and I feel a little embarrassed. She looks at my bloody knee.

“Where are you’re parents?” she says.

I don’t want trouble, for me or for my father. I point toward our yellow house.

“You better come with me,” she says.

She helps me up off the side of the road and brings me to her car. She wraps a blanket around me. The car is plush and warm, like the woman’s soft blue coat, and it smells like a pile of rum cookies. I shiver as she drives. When we reach the yellow house, she pulls into the driveway, and she puts the car in park. She sits for a moment, letting her wide brown eyes rest on me. She smiles. There is concern in this smile, and apprehension, and a brisk intelligence in her eyes, and even, it seems to me, a sexual consideration. She understands something of my past, and of my future.

“You might be okay,” she says.

She is who I want to be.

Her smile fades as she touches my hand, and then she opens the door. She leaves me in the car with her blanket, and her face assumes a curious expression as she walks up to our house. She knocks on the door, waits a moment, and then she tries the handle. The door of course swings open. She gathers me up like a puppy in a blanket and carries me into the living room. She sets me down on the couch.

“I can’t believe these socks,” she says.

She removes the rubber bands from my elbows and unrolls the socks from my hands. In our bathroom, the woman finds a sponge that my mother uses to remove make-up from her face. The woman cleans my cuts.

“Your lips are blue,” she says.

If I weren’t so cold, I’d blush.

“Which direction did he run in?” she says. “Try to remember for me.”

I point in a direction.

“Okay,” she says, and she takes a deep breath. Leaving me in alone in my house seems hard for her to do.

“I’m going to leave, but I’ll be back soon,” she says. “Are you thirsty?”

“No.”

“Keep this blanket tight around you. Stay there on the couch.”

She touches my face and Lord her hand is warm. I don’t want her to take it away. She leaves me wrapped in her blanket, though, and after she closes the door I think about locking it. I also think about calling my father on the phone to warn him that this woman was out there on the road, looking for him, and that if she found him there might be trouble. This is a tic in logic since there were no cell phones in the seventies. I’m often left alone in this house, and since I haven’t yet learned to relax and read, I have – in the past – tried to reach him on the road by dialing up the operator. My fingers are red but they wiggle when I try them. My feet feel nothing at all.

I want to get these sneakers off, but the laces are stiffly knotted. My fingers make ticking sounds as they slip against the knots.

It’s all a game of waiting. You wait for school to start, and you wait for school to end. You wait for summer. You wait for lunch, and when a sandwich is served you don’t really want to eat it. You wait for leaves to fall from the trees, and you rake them into piles. You cover yourself with them.

I should give up on the woman.

Instead, I’ll wait for James Leon to come in from his run. I’ll wait with Deacon, our boa constrictor.

Deacon and I are the same age and we both eat once a month. That’s my mother’s joke. Our family is a robust and healthy family, as you can see, but I happen to be an exception. I’m a picky eater. I want to eat; that is, I want to want to eat. But I have no appetite for it. Now and then my appetite comes and I eat and eat and eat.

I ate eleven pancakes for breakfast once and my mother beamed. She beamed so brightly that I made a big display of it, counting out the pancakes as I swallowed them down, and eating while my appetite was good.

Deacon? I’m freezing.

Let’s look at each other’s tongues.

James Leon has arrived, and he doesn’t look cold. In fact, he seems to be sweating.

The woman doesn’t come inside. She drops him off and leaves. She leaves me with her blanket, though, and with my father, James Leon: a twice-decorated US Marine who can’t untie my shoes. He cuts the laces with a knife.

One at a time he removes each sneaker, and he then removes each sock. As we look at my feet it occurs to me: the Marines haven’t taught him shit. If I was under fire in the living room and there was a bunker in the kitchen he would be very quick to drag me there. His belt would be ready if my foot were a spurting stump. But it isn’t. It’s just cold. Both my feet are cold, and my father James Leon looks worried. I look at him, and he looks at my feet. My feet aren’t looking good. Parts of my left foot – including the ball and two toes – are white and luminescent. The cells of my feet, like stars, are releasing energy as they die. My father and I wonder what he’s going to do, and if he’s smart, he’s making agreements with himself.

James Leon is smart – but he’s smart in peculiar ways.

I wonder if I’m being fair. If I, right now, were to chart a graph of my own life with the y-axis being my level of emotional maturity and the x-axis being time, the result would more closely resemble my high-risk stock, with all of its spikes and slides, than the comfortable hypotenuse of my more stable holdings.

This is true of James Leon, too, and right now he’s in a slide. It isn’t the worst of slides. The worst will come in sixteen weeks, when he will slide lower than most people ever slide. Most people never spend an evening raping their wife, after she’s left him, and then leave her – as he will – with a badly broken jaw. Most people don’t do that. For this reason it will be difficult, years later, for him to find a way to talk about it. It will take courage. One day when I’m fourteen – and all grown up – James Leon and I will sit alone in a car with theater stubs in our hands. He’s nervously enjoying visiting rights, trying to find courage in me.

I’ve done stupid things, he says. I’ll regret them all my life.

It’s okay, I say.

Your mother’s a very strong woman.

This is true. My mother is an interesting woman. My father, who turns a ticket stub in his hand, is making a beginning. He’s laying groundwork for our future, for years when we’re both older, when I’m no longer fourteen, and he’s not thirty-nine. People need someone to call on the phone, when things get tough, or to take care of them, when they get older. He wants me to understand this. James Leon has made an agreement with himself to try to make things right.

Listen, I say. It’s over. For the most part, we’re okay.

This isn’t true. My sister Evelyn, for example, is far from okay. My sister Evelyn, for example, is twenty-six years old and she’s afraid to have sex. She wants to have sex, that is, she wants to want to have sex, but she has no appetite for it. She’s told me this over the phone. She has no appetite for kissing either, or for dating men, or women, which is a strange wrinkle in this narrative, a little tic in logic. I was present for my mother’s rape, and I heard the awful screams. She and I are okay. But Evelyn, who was only a year old when the rape occurred, who was pre-conscious, and technically, not present for the rape, is none-the-less obsessed with it. This rape is all over her life. It’s in the books she reads, and in the movies she watches. It’s in men she finds attractive.

My sister Evelyn has never been raped. But Evelyn has lost her balance. She has intense imagination, and if her mind twirls and her hands reach out, they reach wants for understanding. She says that she wants to live (which is a trend in the right direction) and last year she earned a teaching degree. But teaching isn’t enough for Evelyn; she wants to keep patterns from repeating. She wants to know our history so she can lean against a frame. She told me this over the phone. Since I remember everything, I felt obliged to help. I told her

I lay on the couch in the living room and I heard Mom’s screams from the bedroom as I tried to fall asleep.

This wasn’t enough for Evelyn.

“This is my father that we’re talking about, and my mother, and they’re your parents too. You need to do better than that.”

So I told her

One day dad lied and he took me on a run during winter in Chittenango and my feet got cold but he saved them. He put water on the stove and I still worry about the water but he rolled up his shirt and put my feet on his belly. His belly got cold and my feet were still cold so he moved my feet up to his chest. His mouth was open. I could hear water boil but dad heard nothing. He looked at my feet which were dead, and Evelyn, I tell you he knew he had killed them. He said please to somebody and it wasn’t to me and he breathed harder than I’d ever heard him run. He moved my feet to his armpits. He kneeled on the floor before the couch and he lay his head down on my knees. He said please please but not to me, and my kneecaps itched under his beard. He had killed them. The water boiled in the kitchen but it must have boiled away because after an hour I no longer heard it, but still I worry about it. Then the feeling came back and yeah the pain was so bad that I screamed. So he saved them.

This wasn’t enough for Evelyn, either.

So I decided to take a trip.

Where there is no great love, there can be no great disappointment.

Martin Luther King

Riverside Church, New York, 1967

Evelyn is smart with money. She owns a small house in Albuquerque. The house stands on a plot of land with a yard surrounded by a short wall of pink cinderblocks that breaks a New Mexican wind. It blows in from the Sandias Mountains. The sky pulses orange and yellow light as she drives me in from the airport, and the cactus shudder in the warm wind as we pull into her driveway. I can only stay for an evening.

“It will remain like this for an hour,” she says, looking up at the sky. “I’ll show you through the yard.”

Her backyard is pretty. Native succulents green the dry sand, and a tall cactus with many arms reaches above the pink wall. The yard isn’t big, but as we walk, Evelyn gives me a short history. She explains how the yard was desert when she first moved in, how she planted things but they died, and so she tried to plant again. A few of them took, she says, and as she shows me the leaf of a bottle tree, we sit down on a swing.

So, she says.

So.

Where do you want to start?

Evelyn, there’s no good place to start.

In that case, just start talking.

Well, it started before my feet.

Tell me about Mom’s rape, Kyle.

Can’t you see I’m trying?